Did you know the Pope met privately with abuse victims in Washington?

You did if you caught the CNN report on it, one of the few that went far enough to learn and tell this story.

Three victims of the sexual abuse scandal that rocked the Roman Catholic Church described an emotional, frank and ultimately hope-filled meeting with Pope Benedict XVI on Thursday.

They were part of a small group of people abused by clergy who were asked to share their stories with the pope in a Washington chapel.

“They prayed with the Holy Father, who afterwards listened to their personal accounts and offered them words of encouragement and hope,” said the Rev. Federico Lombardi, a papal spokesman.

The exchanges were frank and unscripted, according to some of the victims.

“I told him that he has a cancer growing in his ministry and needs to do something about it,” Bernie McDaid said in an exclusive interview with CNN.

But McDaid said he came away from the meeting feeling that there was real hope that this time the problem would be addressed, with action to follow.

“I don’t go to Mass, but today I went with my mother, and his sermon there and his apology about the sexual abuse blew me away, and I had tears in my eyes that I wasn’t ready to have. It was an incredible moment for me.”

Another victim said his hope was also restored after meeting Benedict.

“He first apologized,” Olan Horne said. “He seemed to intrinsically understand what we were talking about.”

“We were granted unprecedented access to the Pope, this is a new moment,” said Olan Horne, former child abuse victim who met Pope Benedict XVI. “today was a beginning, absolute.” A beginning of healing. I just heard those remarks on CNN with Anderson Cooper.

Pope Benedict began taking on the subject over the Atlantic in his plan en route to America this week, giving it the priority it deserves. He addressed it again at the address to the bishops of the US on his second evening here in America.

Among the countersigns to the Gospel of life found in America and elsewhere is one that causes deep shame: the sexual abuse of minors. Many of you have spoken to me of the enormous pain that your communities have suffered when clerics have betrayed their priestly obligations and duties by such gravely immoral behavior. As you strive to eliminate this evil wherever it occurs, you may be assured of the prayerful support of God’s people throughout the world. Rightly, you attach priority to showing compassion and care to the victims. It is your God-given responsibility as pastors to bind up the wounds caused by every breach of trust, to foster healing, to promote reconciliation and to reach out with loving concern to those so seriously wronged.

Responding to this situation has not been easy and, as the President of your Episcopal Conference has indicated, it was “sometimes very badly handled”. Now that the scale and gravity of the problem is more clearly understood, you have been able to adopt more focused remedial and disciplinary measures and to promote a safe environment that gives greater protection to young people. While it must be remembered that the overwhelming majority of clergy and religious in America do outstanding work in bringing the liberating message of the Gospel to the people entrusted to their care, it is vitally important that the vulnerable always be shielded from those who would cause harm. In this regard, your efforts to heal and protect are bearing great fruit not only for those directly under your pastoral care, but for all of society.

So Benedict told the bishops that plans and programs are good and well, but they have to start with protecting each child with a fundamental repect for their right to an education in faith.

If they are to achieve their full purpose, however, the policies and programs you have adopted need to be placed in a wider context. Children deserve to grow up with a healthy understanding of sexuality and its proper place in human relationships. They should be spared the degrading manifestations and the crude manipulation of sexuality so prevalent today. They have a right to be educated in authentic moral values rooted in the dignity of the human person. This brings us back to our consideration of the centrality of the family and the need to promote the Gospel of life. What does it mean to speak of child protection when pornography and violence can be viewed in so many homes through media widely available today? We need to reassess urgently the values underpinning society, so that a sound moral formation can be offered to young people and adults alike. All have a part to play in this task – not only parents, religious leaders, teachers and catechists, but the media and entertainment industries as well. Indeed, every member of society can contribute to this moral renewal and benefit from it.

And to clearing out the degradation of pornography and extreme violence prevalent in a society on the skids. The whole address is here.

And this is an invaluable source of the Pope’s real words. Print out his transcripts and go over them. You’ll be eons ahead of the mainstream media.