When it wasn’t really a choice after all

Or, when it was the wrong one. But she didn’t know what she was choosing.

The stories of post-abortion grief are pouring out these days. Look at this pull-quote:

“I wish someone had said, ‘There would be losses having a baby, but don’t underestimate the loss of having an abortion.’” —Lee

Good title: “Giving Sorrow Words”.

Abortion has been presented as a simple procedure that allows women to put the crisis of an unintended pregnancy behind them. The women in this book were told they’d be able to get on with their lives after abortion. But their lives would never be the same.

Now published for the first time in the U.S., Giving Sorrow Words includes the personal accounts of 18 women who have had abortions and draws on the experiences of more than 200 others. These women share their stories of personal suffering and loss—stories that have often gone unheard in a society eager to dismiss abortion-related trauma.

Australian journalist and women’s rights advocate Melinda Tankard Reist examines the experiences of women, including the lack of resources and support, the misinformation and lack of informed consent, and the intense pressure and coercion applied by partners, families, and society in general to force women into unwanted abortions.

Take one of those issues for now, that lack of informed consent…